Can one ever imagine a life without communicating to anyone, without needing to bring ideas across to people in various social settings, without having to go through a single job application or job interview? Being a shy and introverted child, I used to hope that this could be true! However, I soon realise that interactions between people are simply unavoidable in everyday life.
Every now and then, I am confronted with CCA meetings, group projects and occasionally some networking sessions where I have to make conversations despite feeling rather self-conscious and uncomfortable. Often at the end of the day, I would lament on how I could have just made the meeting a little less awkward and a little smoother. In my opinion, learning effective communication is a journey that has no ending. You can always try to better yourself and still that’s always so much more to learn. Yet I firmly believed the effort is worthwhile as there are times in my life, where a little better communication on my part could have avoided so much awkwardness and embarrassment or even trouble that I later have to fix.
Effective communication enhances the productivity of discussions, leaves one feeling satisfied with oneself and often makes other people feel good about themselves too. Hence I place high value on effective communication and hope to acquire as much of these skills as possible.
Hi SiXiao,
ReplyDeleteYour blog has a nice shade of green, good for the eyes, haha=)
I can see where you are coming from, and you did a great job in relating to your personal experience and why you think effective communication is important to you.
I feel that effective communication is more than just satisfaction with yourself and others, but also creating a pleasant experience for both parties.
I can't imagine a world without pleasant conversation where people are just arguing because they don't communicate properly with one another.
And lastly, I too hope to understand other people's emotions better so as to effectively communicate with them ,seems like we have the same goal =)
Regards,
Shu Yan
Hi Si Xiao,
ReplyDeleteFirstly, very nice and simple blog :)
I like how you have intertwined your personal experiences with the need for effective communication. The link between the problems and emotions you had with your desire for better skills is very effective and relevant. Also, you gave examples that everyone can relate to, making it an easy read.
Finally, you summed up the post well by showing how effective communication can help you with the problems you identified in the second paragraph.
A very effective and insightful post. Looking forward to more ;)
Regards,
Prameet
Hi Si Xiao,
ReplyDeleteLooks like I am the last one to post anything on the blogs. Seeing your blog in green reminds me of the days which I were in a green uniform.
It is great that you manage to share many of your experiences with us. It is also good to know that you are aware of your own weaknesses and doing your best to overcome it.
I am also a very shy child toward strangers! One way I learnt how to overcome "being self-concious and uncomfortable during a conversation" is to speak in a slower manner with a louder voice. This can make yourself confident. On top of it, I feel that it is important for us to stop thinking about how other would think if we say something wrong etc. Oblivious to such thoughts, we can better relate our ideas to others. More often than not, it is because we are not confident of ourselves that we feel "awkward", "embarrassment" etc. Hope that helps abit.
Regards
Kenneth
Dear Si Xiao
ReplyDeleteDo sum up.
Perhaps you might want to reduce the size of the group photograph used.
Regards
Happy